Quick outline:
- What I used and how we set it up
- Real positions it gave us and what actually happened
- What worked, what flopped
- Tips, safety, and who this is for
- Final take
What’s a sex position generator, anyway?
It’s a random picker for positions. Think a spin wheel, but for bed stuff. I tested three over a few weeks with my partner: Spicer (the couples app), the Kama Sutra Positions app with a random feature, and a simple “Sex Position Spinner” wheel app that looks like a party game. I used each one on two date nights, plus one lazy Sunday. Curious about the behind-the-scenes photos of those nights? I tucked the whole gallery into my extended write-up on WetLookSex.
For anyone who wants a deeper, image-rich library without rolling the dice, the iKamasutra Sex Positions Guide app serves as a swipeable catalog that pairs nicely with any generator when you’re hunting for visual tips between spins.
I’m Kayla, by the way. I’m 5'6", I run, and my lower back can be fussy. My partner is taller and has long legs. So comfort matters. Fun matters too.
We played this like a game: we set a playlist, a soft lamp, and a small pile of pillows. Lube on the nightstand. We agreed on no pressure, safe words, and a “pass” button. If a spin looked wild, we could re-spin. Simple.
Real spins we tried (and how they went)
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Spooning with a lift: The app showed a side spoon with my top leg pulled up. We used a pillow between my knees. Cozy and quiet. Great for a slow start. Also nice if you’re shy or tired. A keeper.
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Reverse cowgirl, lean forward: It wanted me on top, facing away, chest low. I leaned onto my forearms on the headboard. I felt in control. My quads did work, but not too much. Watch the knees if your bed is soft. Hot and steady.
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Lotus hold: Both of us seated, legs crossed, pulling close. Pretty photo, harder in real life. We could do it for two minutes, then my hips said nope. We turned it into a seated hug and switched. Sweet, but not a go-to.
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Missionary with a hip pillow: The generator called it “tilt.” One pillow under my hips changed the angle a lot. Wild how one pillow fixed my back and made it feel better and deeper at the same time. Simple win.
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Standing face-to-face, one leg up: The wheel loves this one. We tried by the wall. I’m average height, so I needed a sturdy chair for my foot. Sexy in theory; in practice it felt like a workout class. We laughed and moved on. Good for a short burst, not a long scene.
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Edge of bed, from behind: Me kneeling at the edge, him standing. Easy setup. Strong control for him, easy tap-out for me. Works best with a lower bed. We used a folded towel under my knees. Spicy, but my neck needed breaks.
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Flat on tummy, hips cushioned: The app called it “prone.” I put a rolled towel by my hip bones. Quiet, heavy, and very close. Good for nights when I want less movement and more pressure.
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The “butter churner”: Yes, it came up. No, we didn’t do it. Neck safety, folks. I said hard pass, we laughed, we re-spun. Consent isn’t a mood-killer; it’s part of the fun.
Curious how a full week of Kama Sutra–only moves might compare? A candid first-person recap lives over on YourTango, and reading her highs and lows gave me helpful context before tapping “spin.”
You know what? The best bit wasn’t the wild stuff. It was the small tweaks—pillow here, leg there—that made old moves feel new. For anyone who likes to see real-body photos of these tweaks in action, WetLookSex offers a pose gallery that’s way more useful than cartoon acrobat charts.
What I liked
- It cuts the “What do you want?” loop. The random spin picks for you. Less awkward, more play—similar to when we tried a deck of spicy prompt cards and loved it (full review here).
- It made us talk. “How’s your knee?” “Too deep?” That talk made everything better.
- It leveled the field. We both could pass or pick without guilt.
- It brought back basics. Missionary with a tilt. Spoon with a lift. Easy fixes that feel fresh.
What bugged me
- Many apps show acrobat stuff first. Cool pictures, not cool on real backs.
- Some instructions were vague or cheesy. I don’t need a poem; I need where to put my leg.
- Ads popped up on the free wheel. Kinda kills the mood.
- Height and weight notes were rare. Bodies are different. Notes help.
My setup tips (learned the hard way)
- Keep two pillows nearby. One firm, one soft. Game changer.
- Use lube even if you think you don’t need it. Better glide, less stress.
- Set a “three spin” rule. If it’s a no, re-spin. No guilt. No pressure.
- Warm-up first. A stretch, a kiss, a slow start. Then spin.
- Keep water by the bed. You’ll thank me.
Safety and comfort check
- If a move strains your neck, shoulders, or knees, pass. No hero points here.
- Support joints. Towels work fast and don’t slip.
- If something pinches or goes numb, stop. Try a small angle change.
- Talk. Short words work: slower, lighter, higher, stop.
App notes from my nights
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Spicer: Best for couples who like a wider game with tags and limits. The position ideas were solid, and I liked the consent vibe. Setup takes time but pays off.
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Kama Sutra Positions (random feature): Great pictures, clean look, but some poses were gym-level. Use common sense and props.
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Sex Position Spinner (basic wheel): Fast and silly. Good for light nights. Ads can be clunky, so maybe spring for the paid version if you like it.
Who will love this
- New pairs who feel shy about “making requests”
- Long-term couples who want a fresh twist without a big plan (or want to dip into playful scenarios like the CEO role-play date night I tested)
- Folks with busy brains who like a prompt
- People who like games more than talk
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Who might skip it:
- If you need clear, step-by-step guidance
- If you dislike phones in the bedroom
- If your space or body needs very exact cues
Final take
A sex position generator won’t fix your love life. But it can spark play, cut the awkward bits, and nudge you toward simple tweaks that feel great. For us, the wins were small and steady—better angles, better comfort, more laughs. And laughs matter.
My score: 4 out of 5 for fun and ease. Use pillows, keep a pass rule, and spin with care. Honestly, the best nights felt less like a contest and more like a shared joke that got, well, very warm.
Would I keep using it? Yep—once a week, maybe on Friday after pizza. Perfect timing, right?