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I Tried “Sex Guide USA” — My Honest, First-Person Review

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I’m Kayla. I review stuff I actually use. And yep, I used this guide with my partner over a few weeks. I took notes, laughed a little, and learned a lot. Some parts were great. Some parts… meh. Here’s the real tea. For another take on this same resource, check out this in-depth review.

The quick take

It’s a friendly, plain guide about sex, trust, and talking. It’s more “how we connect” than “raunchy tricks.” If you want clear steps, checklists, and kind language, it helps. If you want spicy, graphic details, it won’t be your thing.

Why I picked it

I wanted something that felt grown-up but not cold. We’ve both been busy and stressed. Fun got quiet. You know what? I was tired of guessing what my partner wanted. I needed simple tools that didn’t feel awkward. If you’re into gentle, practical resources, you might also like this sex-positive toolkit one couple tried.

Setup and first look

I got the digital version and printed a few pages. The layout is clean. The tone is warm. The stock photos are a little cheesy, like a toothpaste ad. But the checklists? Super handy.

What actually helped us (real examples)

Here’s the thing. Tips sound cute on paper. But do they work on a random Tuesday? These did:

  • The Yes/No/Maybe list:

    • I checked “Yes” on more kissing. “Maybe” on morning cuddles. “No” on role-play.
    • My partner said “Yes” to slow, quiet nights. “No” to surprises.
    • That tiny sheet started the best chat we’ve had in months.

  • The “7-Minute” touch game:

    • We set a timer. One person gives gentle touch on arms, back, and shoulders only. The other says “more,” “less,” or “stop.”
    • No pressure. No rush. No guessing.
    • We both felt safe and warm. Wild how simple works.

  • The traffic light words (Green/Yellow/Red):

    • We tried a new position that was kinder to my knees. I started feeling tense.
    • I said “Yellow.” We added a pillow and slowed down.
    • No drama. Just a tiny fix that kept things kind.

  • The breathing cue:

    • They teach a 4-second inhale, 4-second exhale. Sounds basic, I know.
    • I used it when I felt shy. It took the edge off. I felt present.

  • The after-talk script:

    • We asked: “What worked?” “What should we try next time?” “Anything to avoid?”
    • I said, “More kissing at the start.” My partner said, “Less talking during.” Fair! We laughed and kept notes.

  • The lube basics:

    • It explains water-based vs silicone in plain words. No weird jargon.
    • We tried a drugstore water-based gel. It didn’t stain our sheets and felt clean.

  • The pain and comfort tips:

    • There’s a neat section on pillows, pace, and checking in.
    • My lower back usually acts up. The pillow tip helped a ton.

  • The consent and respect parts:

    • Clear, gentle reminders. Not preachy. It shows you how to ask, not just say “get consent.”
    • We practiced lines like, “Are you comfy?” and “Want to keep going?” That softened the mood in a good way.

Honestly, none of this felt like homework. It felt like… care. Which is kind of the point.

Role-play wasn’t our jam this month, but reading about how a playful scenario unfolded in this first-person night at a Portland sex-positive club gave me ideas for later. And if you’re ever stuck on “what next?” in the bedroom, letting a sex position generator shuffle the deck can be surprisingly freeing.

What didn’t land for me

  • Some pages lean a bit straight-couple, even though it tries to include many folks. It’s better than most guides, but not perfect.
  • The photos look stiff. Real bodies would help.
  • The index is thin. When I looked for “pain during sex,” I had to skim around.
  • A few tips felt obvious if you’ve read any decent book on this stuff.

Who it’s great for

  • Couples who want simple tools: lists, scripts, and tiny step-by-steps.
  • Folks who feel shy and want gentle language.
  • People who want less guesswork and more connection.

Who might not love it

  • If you want graphic, spicy details—nope.
  • If you’re a pro who’s read everything—some parts will feel basic.

For readers craving a bolder, more visually driven guide, you can explore resources like WetLook Sex to see if that style matches your vibe. Their writer also shared an unfiltered night at a Seattle sex club if you want a no-hype peek.

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Small things that made a big difference

  • The “start soft” routine:

    • Two minutes of cuddling.
    • One minute of slow breathing.
    • One minute of eye contact or a slow hug.
    • Then ask, “What would feel nice tonight?” That line set the tone, every time.

  • The “pause and pivot” move:

    • If something feels off, say, “Let’s pause.” Then switch to a cuddle or back rub.
    • It keeps the moment from crashing.

  • The “Friday check-in”:

    • We did 10 minutes after dinner.
    • Three questions: What felt good this week? What felt odd? What do you want more of?
    • We kept it short so it didn’t get heavy.

Little annoyances (but not dealbreakers)

  • Some terms show up without a quick definition right away. A glossary page would help.
  • The tone is very “teacher voice” at times. Not awful, just a bit stiff.

Tips to get the most out of it

  • Print the Yes/No/Maybe list for both of you. Fill it out alone. Swap after.
  • Use a timer for the 7-minute touch game. It makes it feel safe and clear.
  • Keep a small notepad by the bed. Jot one win and one wish after.
  • Have water and lube on the nightstand. Future you will say thanks.
  • If anything hurts, stop. Try a pillow, change angle, or rest. Comfort first.

What I wish it had

  • More photos of different bodies, ages, and abilities.
  • A fast “pain plan” chart: if X hurts, try Y and Z.
  • A better index. I’m a nerd for clean navigation.

Final verdict

I’m keeping it. It gave us language, not pressure. It gave us small, kind steps that actually fit real life. Is it perfect? No. Is it useful? Yes—very.

Would I recommend it? If you want clear, warm guidance with real tools and zero shame, absolutely. If you want something edgy or super graphic, this won’t scratch that itch.

You know what? Sometimes the soft stuff is the strong stuff. This guide gets that. And that’s why it worked for us.

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